Welcome To Modern Dating By Eddie (Dating Tips, Advice For Women, Men)
Unbiased advice from someone who brutally honest yet determined to improve the dating pool for all. Date me docs, dating apps, dating culture, speed dating, matchmakers & latest dating trends.
This is Modern Dating, a newsletter about dating apps, dating culture and all the biases people have about others, dates, etiquette, apps, photos, lifestyle choices and more.
People are quick to blame apps, stats, culture and entire cities + genders rather than look at their own choices, hidden biases, and things like bad timing, individual choice, communication styles, effort, other people’s preferences/deal-breakers and lifestyle choices.
Have a question? Want to discuss a topic?
Modern Dating Blog, Newsletter (Modern Dating Advice, Tips For Men & Women)
This newsletter is all about answering your questions about modern dating culture by providing nuanced explanations rather than cut and dry simplistic advice.
We’ll discuss things like behavior, etiquette, misleading claims, trends, liars, creeps, narcissists, emotionally unavailable individuals and how to protect yourself from toxic people, apps, matchmakers, coaches and more.
Check out my dating blog in the meantime with more general advice, what not to do and more.
What Is Modern Dating? Modern Dating Culture
Modern dating is the clusterf*ck of what it’s like dating in today’s age.
It spans digital efforts, outsourcing dating outlets, manipulative dating app algorithms, bad behavior, ambiguous etiquette, slang terms and increased difficulty dating given cost of living, work/life balance, unchecked mental health problems, isolation do to covid/wfh and a regression in social skills due to over-reliance on technology, phones and apps.
It’s also the rise of questionable but often bad advice given by the internet via reddit forums, red pill groups, are we dating the same guy facebook groups, tik-tok videos and more.
Lastly, it’s also all the ambigous situations that arise from dating including messaging frequency and response time, etiquette around who pays for dates, and expectations around disclosing information, being vulnerable, communicating intentions and not being a d*ck.
Dating Apps Tips, Online Dating Blog - Modern Dating Advice
This blog is more than just online dating advice. Most advice about dating apps assumes you have other aspects of your life in check - in most cases, this couldn’t be further from the truth.
While I may offer advice on online dating, I will also reference areas of your life that impact online dating such as wardrobe, personality, hobbies, career, location, preferences, lifestyle choices, first impressions, hygiene, app choice and more.
Date Me Docs, Matchmakers, Ghostwriters, AI Generated Photos, Speed Dating & Offline Efforts
We will dig into all the latest trends and answer all the questions you were too afraid or embarrassed to ask. Which to use, how often to use them, which mix is best for you and what to look out for (bad contracts, spammers, bots, liars, manipulators and more).
In the mean time, check out some popular guides/topics below.
City dating guides: Austin | Los Angeles | NYC | Seattle | Silicon Valley | San Francisco / London / Chicago
Online Dating Blog For Guys, Dating Blog For Women
In my blog, I will offer advice that factors multiple points of views, biases, priorities and more. This is not a blog to trash the other gender or that glosses over expectations, etiquette and things like competition, realistic expectations, timing, self-work and lifestyle choices.
Dating experiences: Short Guys & Tall Women / Woman / Men / Doctors / Engineers / Tech Bros
About Eddie Hernandez
Analytics geek turned photographer (headshots, personal branding, dating profiles), image consultant (wardrobe, social skills, etiquette, cultural adjustment) & dating consultant for introverts, engineers, tech folks, men/women, and straight/lgbtq+ (as seen in the NYT, WSJ). Check out my blog for all your dating questions/concerns.
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