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Eddie Hernandez
Oct 16, 2025
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Modern Dating Advice For Men & Women
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By Modern Dating Blog Men, Women

Chances are that you are tired of being single, hate dating apps, or are super busy with your life and are eager to find that special someone. You might have heard ads for It’s Just Lunch, seen paid ads for Tawkify or been approached by a matchmaker on Bumble.

The pandemic has made finding a partner more difficult because of isolation, weight gain, regression in social skills, monetization efforts of dating apps, safety concerns, WFH and relocation as well as motivation to go out.

Related read: Where To Meet Single Men, Women In San Francisco

San Francisco Bay Area Matchmaking Services

If you are considering taking the plunge of using dating apps, please keep reading. Many folks sign up for services without reading the fine print, examining Yelp & Google reviews or asking for recommendations from people around them.

It’s a daunting process filled with opaque data, reviews, processes, promises and outcomes.

The NYTimes reached out to me to get my insight into matchmakers given my familiarity with advising folks on their dating lives (deciding between apps vs matchmakers, relocating, grooming advice, image styling and offline coaching for me and women) as well as being hired by individuals on behalf of said matchmakers for their profiles.


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