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Modern Dating Tips & Guide For Men & Women

Modern dating is a pain - but it doesn’t have to be that way.

Eddie has been helping single folks navigate the dating waters for over 10 years. Based in San Francisco, he works with single men and women (seeking relationships) helping them understand various dating options (singles mixers, matchmakers, dating apps, speed dating and social events) and helps them find the right mix to optimize their dating efforts.

Having lived in Los Angeles and New York and traveled internationally extensively for work and pleasure, he understands nuance in things like cultural differences and family pressures. Most of his clients come from large cities across the world.

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Modern Dating Blog For Men, Women; Dating Advice Blog

This blog is for those that are new to dating, have little experience dating, are confused by ‘the rules’, keep making the same mistakes or are frustrated with dating in today’s culture.

This modern dating blog will delve into:

  • Dating apps

  • Matchmakers

  • Date Me Docs

  • Speed Dating

  • Meeting People Offline

  • Social Media

  • Trends, Taboos & More


What Is Modern Dating Culture? Rules, Etiquette, Terms & Expectations

Check out my original blog for all your dating questions/concerns (app reviews, photo recommendations, bio tips, how-to-answer prompts, swiping etiquette, red flags, AI dating photos, scams, guys using ChatGPT for messages, how to respond to hi on Bumble & more).

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Modern Dating Advice For Men, Women; Online Dating Blog, Dating App Blog

If you are looking for advice to make you feel good, blow sunshine up your ass or tell you everything will be ok, look somewhere else.

Dating is arguably one of the most important decisions in one’s life but many try to wing it or don’t give it the attention, focus and effort like they do with health, exercise, nutrition, finances, career, friends or family.

Stop navigating apps blindly.

Stop taking biased advice from coaches that never struggled with dating.

Stop listening to friends and family who are not brutally honest with you.


Modern Dating Rules, Etiquette, Modern Dating Culture

There are no rules in today’s dating world. People can choose to act as they please even if it’s selfish, mean and harmful.

It’s up to you to set boundaries, recognize bad behavior, cut off time wasters and learn to respect yourself.

Don’t expect the trash to take itself out.

Modern dating requires people to filter people aggressively and learn to market themselves effectively. There is a lot of noise, liars and false positives out there and I am here to help you navigate the muddy waters that is modern dating.

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About Eddie Hernandez, Dating Coach For Men, Women (Dating Coach Bay Area)

Dating is not done in a vacuum of course so he takes a holistic approach to analyzing people’s lives and decision making processes from:

  • first impressions (wardrobe, hygiene, posture, grooming, photos, writing);

  • lifestyle choices (hobbies, interests, religion, career, company, social circles, availability);

  • interpersonal skills (communication skills, texting, life experience, eye contact, vocal intonation, active listening);

  • expectations (understanding statistics, other people’s preferences, timing, intentions, family planning);

  • screening people (questions to ask, red flags, scams, AI);

  • date planning (communication, timing, date ideas);

More about Eddie here. Clients include VC’s, therapists, engineers, introverts, divorcees/widows, BIPOC, ages 22-72+.

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Modern Dating Culture, Problems, Advice For Men & Women

Modern Dating Etiquette For Men, Women (Online Dating Rules)

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Modern Dating Blog, Advice (Dating Tips For Men, Women, Introverts, Beginners, Divorcedz Parents) Based in SF, clients in LA, NYC, Seattle, Chicago, London, Sydney & beyond. As seen on NYT, WSJ, Bumble. Substack Dating. https://eddie-hernandez.com