How To Get Men To Approach You In Public, In Real Life
How to get noticed by men (bars, cafes & restaurants). Subtle ways to create organic openings for men to start conversations with you. How to meet men in real life, offline. Why don't men approach you
Reader question: How do I get more guys to approach me in person? I don’t want to use apps anymore but I am not meeting guys offline either.
It’s 2024.
Most women are sick of dating apps.
Bumble just allowed men to message first.
False-positives, low-effort, no replies and weak date ideas are everywhere.
Dating apps are still worth using but no one ever said to rely on them as your only or main outlet.
Dating apps are not ordering apps - they require you to use good judgement and not expect the trash to take itself out i.e. no hookups, not interested in ENM etc.
Below are some ways to attract men organically, offline using some unconventional, indirect and overly specific scenarios.