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Should Women Send The First Like On Hinge, Bumble?

Do women send likes on Hinge, Bumble? Scared to send likes on dating apps, should women send likes on dating apps? Bumble etiquette? Hinge Etiquette?

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Eddie Hernandez
Jun 13, 2025
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Sending the first like on dating apps - Hinge, Bumble

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Should women send the first likes on dating apps or should they wait for men to send them?

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Should Women Send Likes On Dating Apps?

This is a question I often get from clients, strangers, friends, and people I meet randomly out and about. There are several opinions on this and it is important to separate who the advice is coming from, understand nuance and context and explain why methodologies may or may not work for you. It will also depend on your relative success to date, urgency, and your ability to use good judgment, screen profiles, read people and make a good profile.


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